It is a great time to be a coffee drinker in Maynardville. Whether you are waking up early headed to work, finishing up the morning school drop offs, or just plain love to guzzle coffee all day, with one sip you will be sure to add a new stop to your daily route. Liquid Lightning, a local veteran owned and operated coffee shop, has opened their doors and put the go-juice on to brew with a goal of bringing delicious coffee, lots of laughs, and a sense of joy and comfort to the community.
Thank You for Your Sacrifice
Year One, Week Twenty-Six
The Fourth of July, 2018 is less than approximately twenty-six hours away as I write this article. It is fitting at this time to reflect on the sacrifices of innumerable veterans and active military that have provided me the freedom to write and you to read these words.
Servicemen and women embody a type of love, the fifth of five endangered characteristics of true character suggested by Bill Hybels in his book Who You Are When No One’s Looking: Choosing Consistency, Resisting Compromise. The previous two weeks have focused on tender and tough love in lives of compassionate and hardhearted people. This week I share with you a third type of love, sacrificial love.
Jesus said in John 15: 13, “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends” (KJV). Soldiers daily put themselves in jeopardy to protect freedom for those of us who neither served in the armed forces nor show them the respect deserving of such sacrifice.
Love for mankind always involves sacrifice—it is more about being a servant than a hero. Not everyone has the opportunity to demonstrate sacrificial love by something as great as being a soldier or saving a stranger from a burning building. Often, such love is often shown in small ways. Sacrificial love is about giving, not receiving, and always costs the giver something. Hybels discusses three major categories of this cost in three areas of life—friendships, marriage, and the workplace.
First is time. True friendship, successful marriages and good workplace relationships take an investment of time, not only when things are pleasant and lovely, but when there is sickness, arguments, financial loss. The same vows prevalent in marriage ceremonies could also be applicable to relationships with friends and co-workers—in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, for better or worse.
A second cost of sacrificial love is energy. A synonym for energy in this case might be “work”. True friendships don’t just accidentally happen, and the same is true for marriages and relationships with co-workers. The worldview promotes self-gratification through books, articles, commercials and advertisements. Too many children in public schools are taught the value of a good self-esteem without consideration for others’ feelings. When such children become adults, they often form superficial friendships, marriages and work relations with others similar to themselves. These relationships work for a while, until a need arises—then, because everyone is self-centered and not sympathetic or empathetic, needs go unfulfilled, and the friendship fails because of lack of commitment. Where there is a dry well, no water can be drawn, and thirst remains.
Time and energy are intangibles, but there is a third, tangible cost to sacrificial love—money. Money in and of itself is not a bad thing—it is the love of money that is the root of all evil (I Timothy 6:10 KJV). Surely everyone could give numerous examples of this. I once knew two people. One had a car that was inherited from a parent that was rarely driven, while the other had a son who had a wreck and needed a car. When the person whose son had a need asked the other for the loan of the car, an emphatic NO with an oath was the reply, and the friendship cooled.
The ultimate danger of the cheerful, sacrificial giver is the disappointment that comes with being taken advantage of and lack of recognition. A sacrificial giver can become disillusioned to the point of despair.
But do not confuse the “good old boy system” with sacrificial giving. There is a philosophy prevalent in our area that if a person does a good deed for someone, that person will in turn be obligated to return the favor upon demand. I knew a gentleman once who favored himself a politician. He showered his many “friends” with favors, but when he called to collect on his investments, he had stretched himself so thin and had become so politically impotent that those “friends” felt no obligation to waste a favor on one who could not pay them back.
Sacrificial giving in its purest sense means doing things for others with no thought of repayment. It was exemplified in my life by several people: the man who gave me five dollar bills when I was a child in church, knowing that I could not do anything for him; the church who gave my family a food basket after my father died, knowing that we would never contribute one dime to their offering; the lady who had her own children to provide for, yet bought me a suit to wear to my high school graduation; the elderly lady who took me into her home while my father was ill so I wouldn’t have to change schools, only to realize loss of privacy and the unknown demands of dealing with a headstrong teenager; the kind teacher who bought me a set of magic markers and delivered them to my house on a Saturday.
These memories make me ashamed of my own selfishness. I hope one day someone can remember me for having made her/his life better, just as my life has been made better by the examples of those listed above.
In my next article I plan to go radical!!!
I got a call from Aaron Russell the other day. He was checking to see how I was doing. He hadn't talked with me in a while. During the conversation, he mentions that he likes to bake bread. Not just any bread, but salt-rising bread. He described the process as well as how good the bread tastes. That got me thinking.
Fresh pie cherries aren't available in February. That's okay. Food City does my canning for me these days. They have one pound cans of red tart cherries on the shelf every day. I call them sour cherries.
Do you really think George cut down a cherry tree? Do you really think he fested up to the deed? Naw. George was known as a ladies man. I wouldn't be surprised if he did tell a lie now and then.
Blaise Pascal once said, “The heart has its reasons, of which reason knows nothing… We know truth, not only by reason, but also by the heart.”
Pascal was a genius and a genuine polymath who lived in the 17th century. To cover his accomplishments and body of work would require volumes, which have already been written. I want to focus on the concept he so poetically illustrated above – the ever-present battle between the head and the heart. Specifically,
Here is a fudge recipe I made a long time ago, that is, if you call 1981 a long time ago. Fudge recipes have evolved over the years. They are easier to make now. Just cook up some sugar and evaporated milk. Add chocolate and marshmallow cream and you have fudge. But it is not the same as the old fashioned variety. Oldsters will agree with me. (I will share one of those recipes at a later date.).
Failed back surgery (continued low back and leg pain after surgery) is relatively common according to a new report from the Boston University School of Medicine. With each reoperation, success, as defined by pain reduction, becomes less likely and most patients do not improve. However, preliminary studies using a simple procedure to remove scar tissue or adhesions suggests a new treatment could help those with post-surgical, chronic low back pain.
I have had a beautiful beer stein since World War II. My brother, Rodney, sent it back from Germany. He was part of a Navy goodwill tour that started at England then went on to Germany. He sent back two beer steins and a Black Forest coo coo clock from there.
When he returned home, Rod took back the coo coo clock and one beer stein. That left me with one beer stein. I have placed that beautiful beer stein in a prominent place in my home as I moved around the country. It is time to give it a permanent home while I am still here to do so.
Join us for our annual Mom's night out. Monday, February 25, at six pm when April Shepherd, from the Smoky Mountain Home Education Association will be speaking at Hardees. April, a proponent of country living and a successful homeschooling Mother, will be speaking on using everyday living to teach fundamentals and life skills. She has titled her talk, "Little House on the Prairie Schooling". Sponsored by the local support group of homeschooling families, more information can be obtained by contacting Connie Dickey @ 865-992-3629
Local Emergency Planning Committee meetings are held quarterly at the 911 center, Second Thursday of (March, June, September, December) at 10:00am for more information call Dana Simerly (865) 992-2763 Meetings are open to the public. The next meeting was rescheduled for February 28, 2019 at 7:00pm in the large Court room.
Alder Springs Missionary Baptist Church will be hosting a Men’s Conference on Friday, March 1st at 7:00 P.M. and Saturday, March 2nd at 9:30 A.M.
Evangelists will be Rev. Jerry Vittatoe and Rev. Mike Viles. Pastor, Rev. Jimmy Davidson extends a hearty welcome to all men.
After youth have participated in school during February, they will be awarded a blue ribbon to move forward to the county contest. The entries at the county will be due for judging on March 18 then displayed with awards at the Extension Month Open House on March 19 for sampling.
Dorothy “Dottie” Headrick, age 73, of Knoxville, went to be with her loving husband Ralph on February 19, 2019. She was a Christian woman who loved taking care of her family and others.
Preceded in death by loving husband Ralph Headrick; brother Bill Atchley; and great grandchild Karter Headrick.
Janice Ann Beeler Fields-age 66 of Corbin, Kentucky passed away suddenly Monday morning, February 18, 2019 at her home. She was a loving mother, nana, sister and friend. She will be sadly missed by all. Janice was a member of Nave Hill Baptist Church and was a former co-owner of Fields Apparel in Monticello, Kentucky. She was recently employed at SEKRI, Corbin, Kentucky for 22 years. Preceded in death by parents, James Aubrey and Lillie Beeler, two brothers, Gary and Terry Beeler; nephew, Adam Beeler.
Robert Bradley Douglas, known as Brad Douglas, was born October 12th, 1978. Brad spent his life in the Knoxville area embracing the Tennessee Volunteers, fishing and hiking. Brad's favorite thing to do was to take him and his family exploring. It is with great sadness that the family of Brad Douglas announces his passing at the age of 40. His spirit, enthusiasm and willingness to put other's needs above his own will be missed but not forgotten.
R. Bruce Kezer-age 84 of Knoxville departed this world for heaven on February 15 from his home. His family was at his side. Born in Jersey City, NJ, on September 30, 1934 to Edwin and Ruth (Adams) Kezer, Bruce graduated from the University of Vermont in 1957. He then entered the US Army and served, in peacetime, for three years until being honorably discharged at the rank of Lieutenant. Bruce loved Jesus with all his heart, and worked to live instead of the other way around.
Thomas M. McLaughlin age 57 currently of Maynardville TN, formerly of Edison NJ, passed away on February 8th 2019 at UT Hospital following an exhausting battle with cancer. Preceded in death by father, Thomas W, and brother Michael W McLaughlin.
Survived by wife Kathie, daughter and son-in-law Jennifer McLaughlin and Josh Lamb, son TJ, mother Elaine, sister and brother-in-law Lori and Gary Yurchak, grandchildren Chris and Michael, as well as a host of other relatives and friends.
Judson “Juddy“ Bailey - age 79 of Washburn, was born on February 27, 1939 and passed away peacefully on Sunday, February 10, 2019. We all called him Pap. He was a member of Nave Hill Baptist Church. He loved his family, hunting, playing cards, dogs and driving around. He spent his last few months putting on his shoes and saying “I believe I will go home”. He is finally “home“, peacefully in the arms of Jesus.
Frances Jane Nichols “Janey”, age 61, of Rockford, went to be with the Lord on February 8, 2019, surrounded by her loved ones. She was a beloved mom, sister, and granny. Preceded in death by parents Jack Huggins and Bernice Van Dyke, brother Jackie Huggins, sisters Sarah Munsey, Sandy Huggins, and Darlene Dunaway.
Raymond Scott Brock-age 84 of Washburn passed away Friday evening, February 8, 2019 at his home. He was a member of Salem Primitive Baptist Church. Preceded in death by wife, Barbara Brock; parents, Walter and Lois (Atkins) Brock; sister, Ruby Idol; son-in-law, Henry Paul McGinnis.